Photographers are a lot more afraid of their own websites than they let on, and I think that fear shapes their sites more than any design trend does.
I know this because I recently went back through every email photographers have sent me since the start of 2025, plus my notes from our Zoom calls. Inquiries, audit forms, support questions, replies to my newsletter, all of it. I wanted to see what people actually say when they write to a web designer, in their own words, before I get the chance to steer the conversation.
Some of it surprised me. Most of it will sound familiar, and that’s the useful part, because your own clients probably write to you the same way.
TL;DR: Photographers rarely ask for a specific fix. They describe a symptom (few inquiries, a competitor above them on Google) and they’re often scared to touch their own site. AI search is already sending clients to photographers, but the website still decides who gets booked. Your clients behave the same way with you, so the best website copy uses their words and answers their worries, not just your services.
Nobody writes to me asking for technical SEO
The first message almost never names the actual problem, it describes how the problem feels.
“Tumbleweed, you know?”
“I pretty much only get inquiries from my website, but very few, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.”
“…my instagram came up but not my site!!”
“One or two photographers who were always behind me skipped above”
“It’s so much harder to be found than 10 years ago”
Not one of these people asked me to fix their meta descriptions or their redirects. They googled themselves, felt a knot in their stomach, and wrote to me. The technical cause (and there usually is one) only shows up later, once I look.
Your clients do exactly the same thing with you. A bride doesn’t search for “documentary wedding photography with a candid approach”, she writes that she hates posing and wants her grandma in the photos. A small business owner doesn’t want “brand storytelling”, they want headshots that don’t look stiff on their About page. If your homepage talks in your terms and your clients think in theirs, the words never meet.
AI search is already sending clients to photographers
I’ve been writing about AI search for a while now, and this year it stopped being a prediction. It’s in my inbox.
“2 or 3 clients told me, Hey, I used ChatGPT to find me the best photographers. And I was like, Wow. I’m surprised.”
“My last new client came to me through an ai overview”
“I’m trying to now wrap my head around this new way of showing up as people search!”
But the most interesting one came from a family photographer I work with. A new client told her he’d asked an AI tool to find photographers, and then visited the 5 websites it gave him. He picked her because her site was, in his words:
“the most warm and heartfelt :) (the other ones looked like templates)”
AI can put you on the shortlist, but your website still decides whether you get booked. That’s the part a lot of photographers miss when they panic about AI. Being recommended is step one. Once someone lands on 5 sites side by side, it comes back to the same old things: whether the site feels like a real person made it, and whether it’s easy to see what you do and get in touch.
One more thing I’ve noticed, though I can’t prove it: when people arrive with a summary already in their head, the first question on the call is often about price. So it’s worth making sure your site answers the obvious questions (what’s included, roughly what it costs) before an AI tool answers them for you, maybe badly.
Fear came up almost as often as ambition
This is the one I didn’t expect. When I sorted everything people wrote into what they want and what they’re afraid of, the fear pile came surprisingly close to the ambition pile. And among my existing clients, fear won.
“I’m not an engineer, I’m just an artist.”
“I am afraid to touch anything or do anything.”
“So I try not to change much on it as I’m afraid it will mess up my rating.”
“Is it a hoax or something we should worry about?”
“I’m really at the point where I can either do photography, or I can mess with the website all the time.”
I get it, I really do. You’ve got a site that works well enough, you remember the one time something broke, and every “critical” email from your host or from Google Search Console makes it worse.
The problem is that not touching the site doesn’t keep it safe. Plugins age and platforms change under you, so things break quietly anyway. One client lost a sale because a button simply didn’t show up on phones, while everything looked fine on the desktop.
What helps is knowing which changes are reversible. Editing text, swapping images and reordering a gallery are almost always safe to undo. Changing URLs, switching platforms or deleting pages are the ones worth a second opinion first. Make sure there’s a recent backup, change one thing at a time, and check the site on your phone afterwards. That alone takes most of the fear out.
Almost everyone apologizes before they ask
This one made me a bit sad, honestly. So many messages start with an apology.
“Please excuse my ignorance if my questions seem strange or daft.”
“I feel like the website is the achilles heel of every photographer.”
“When I grow up and I’m a real photographer. Then I can decide that.”
That last one came from a working photographer with paying clients, by the way.
If you feel behind with your website, you’re in very good company. The photographers I see doing well usually just stopped waiting until they felt ready, and started fixing one thing at a time. Very few of them understand every technical detail.
What they actually want is better clients
When people describe the outcome they’re after, “more traffic” almost never comes up. It’s about who shows up.
“I just want a pared down website that will attract my ideal clients who will pay me what I am worth.”
“When I do get organic enquiries, they usually convert.”
One photographer told me that a lot of his inquiries start with the same sentence: “I think I can’t afford what you’re doing, but anyway, we’re going to have a chat.” Those are people who already decided they want him, before any price talk.
A good website brings people in and filters them at the same time, so the ones who contact you already like your work and roughly know what you charge. And it does that with honest, specific words, because photographers can smell generic copy from a mile away. As one of them put it about a certain type of homepage line:
“Capturing moments, creating memories, that is just, you know, fingers down the back of your throat.”
How to use this on your own website
You can do a smaller version of what I did in an afternoon, and it’s one of the best things you can do for your website copy:
- Open your inbox and find your last 20 inquiries or so.
- Copy the first two sentences of each into a document.
- Highlight the words they use to describe what they want, and what they’re worried about.
- Put that next to your homepage headline and your About page, and see how much of their language made it onto your site.
You’ll probably find the gap right away. Your clients might write about feeling awkward in front of the camera or their kids not sitting still, while your homepage talks about light and emotion and timeless images.
Your clients are telling you what to put on your website, every week, in your inbox. Some of it will be messy and full of typos, and that’s fine, you’re only after the words anyway.
So what would YOUR inbox say your clients are worried about?
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